“No one has ever seen me swear in public”

When you were growing up, what were you told about what happens to us after we die? My grandparents were Catholic and my parents would still say they are, too. I went to a Catholic primary school. I was brought up with the belief that we go to Heaven. The body stays here and the soul goes up to Heaven.

What do you believe in now? That when we die, we’re gone, and we try to remember the people that were here by upholding their legacy. Recently, my nephew passed [Rye, aged 11, last…